Be the ringmaster

intentional. audacious. you.

What the… huh? Is this something that’s right for me?

If you’re a woman of a certain age (ahem) who’s ready to get back to who she used to be – you remember her, right? – then yes, this is for you. If you’re tired of living by someone else’s script for your life; someone who wonders where the fun and sparkle went, this is for you. If you’re looking for encouragement, guidance and community so you can take flight by trying new things, writing the book, starting the business, having laugh out loud fun, and, well, anything really, then yes – a thousand times yes, this IS for you.

Life’s a three ring circus, am I right? It’s time you were its ringmaster.

I’m Nancy Davies (let’s pretend that’s me standing on the trapeze in the graphic above) and I’m going to encourage and show you how you can  lead a center ring life.
This is going to be fun! (And informative).

Don’t worry, I use the circus as a metaphor so you don’t have to fly on the trapeze, unless you want to (and you know you want to).

Together we’ll create your spectacle and sparkle. 

Find Your Joy

While you’re here, we’ll cheer you on (YAY for you!) as you look for those things which put a smile on your face and a skip in your step. Like creating art or going to space. A girl’s gotta dream, right? Let your imagination run wild.

Find Your Bravery

Fear is most likely the biggest factor holding you back from doing something new or different. Well, duh, that’s the whole point of fear, but together we’ll look at it and balance risks/rewards. Things are never as scary as they seem and you can be brave, intentional and take a leap. Yes you can!

Find Your Center Ring

You and I are going to explore what you really want to do with your life. Yup, we’re talking BIG stuff here. Remember how you always wanted to be a stand-up comic? Start a non-profit or be a children’s book author? Whatever your “it” is, buckle up because, we’re going there! Scared or not, here we come.  

Have Some Questions? Here’s A Few With Answers.

You may have more but this gets the ball rolling.

Why did you start this?

I’ve always been someone to take thoughtful, calculated risks, like the time I “ran away” and joined the circus in my 40’s. A few years later I had this nagging feeling I needed to help others “run away,” too (metaphorically speaking, not really go and hide) to pursue something that tugs at mind and heart. Especially women who have now raised their families, and/or been well established in their careers or are tired of what has always been. In other words, women who want to take care of themselves for a change. Who want fun things in their life. Interesting things. Meaningful things. I could go on, but you get the idea. Is this you? 

So what are you? A coach of some sort?

You may call me whatever you like – how about Ms. Sassy Pants? I’m trying to make it a thing.

If  you can call me a coach if you like, though I hold no coaching certificate. Another title could be mentor, because certificate or not, I do know from experience of what I speak. Or better yet, how about contributor? Because while I may not have all the answers, I do have ideas worth considering – so speaks, Ms. Sassy Pants. 

Ok, So what's your background?

You can read much more on the about page, but in a nutshell: Since my late teens I’ve spent time on and off working with circuses – including being an actual ringmaster. I see the circus having similarities to how we can live a unique life. There have been other careers and jobs, too, where I made carefully considered bold choices. Same with my personal life. If you want someone to help you be bold, I’m here for ya.  

What if I want to be a clown instead of a ringmaster?

You be you! I ask people to consider themselves a ringmaster because that role is seen as the take-charge person, in command, the one directing the show. That’s how I see women making things happen. But certainly you can be the clown if that’s what speaks to you. In fact, they are likely the most underappreciated performers – hardworking, the backbone of the circus, yet they have to pratfall and make people laugh all while wearing big floppy shoes. 

But really, why should I bother to be here? what's in it for me?

Firstly (surprisingly, this is the first time I’ve actually used that word), I’d love it if you signed up for my emails. I know your inbox may be full already, but if you add me to it, I’ll send you stories, show you resources and there may be a surprise from time to time – I hope you like virtual cupcakes.

Secondly, my blog posts and videos can be encouraging and a guide for you – fingers crossed. Plus, my soon to be free podcast (or actual podcast, depending on when you’re reading this) will introduce you to people you should know who have interesting takeaways for you. I love me some good takeaways!

First and foremost, I want this to be a fun place; however, I’ll also challenge you (in a positive way so put down the stick), make you think (hmmm), hopefully laugh (or groan – this can be hit or miss), and eventually we’ll just see where this takes us. Such as a long weekend retreat for all us ringmasters. That’s something I think would be a lot of fun. Where should we go?

I’m here to entertain, contribute and serve. What’s your pleasure? Knowledge? Encouragement? Cotton candy? Let’s do this!

This is off topic, but did you really cancel a date with George Clooney?

Oh my, how did you hear about this? Yes. He was going to take me to one of my class reunions, and it wasn’t even his school. In my defense, back then he wasn’t THE George Clooney. There were extenuating circumstances causing me to cancel, and, well, soon after he left for Los Angeles and I never saw him again. If I’d only known then…oh well, no need to think about what could have been (Mrs. Clooney? Oh, how you flatter me). That’s my story and I’m sticking to it.